How does communicating with other members work on Match.com?
You can communicate with other members in different ways. You can communicate with them via e-mails or IM (instant message). Instant messaging is pretty popular and easy to use. Once you become a paid subscriber on Match.com you can begin sending and receiving IM messages. Just go to the profile page of the person you wish to communicate with. If they are available to IM you will see a button that says "IM Him/Her". Selecting this button will start your Instant messaging session.
If the "IM Him/Her" button does not appear, the member is not available to communicate with at that time or does not have the instant message system installed.